Apologies it has been a little while, as always we have been all over the place, which can leave little time for writing. Though saying that I have found a little time on our flight back from the stunning Amalfi coast, where we have been doing a little recce for one of next years weddings, and let me just say, it is BEAUTIFUL! But enough about that and a little more about today’s blog, which is…

Wedding day logistics… not the most glamorous part of planning but my are they important! Now I like to think I’m a fairly logical guy (my friends may disagree), I like to fixate in on the logistics to ensure a wedding day runs as smoothly as possible. It’s all the little cogs that makes a wedding day tick along as it should. It is these little logistical elements that I just want to run through today, because before working at Matthew Oliver Weddings I wouldn’t have thought of these, so maybe you haven’t either? (Though if you have you’re doing alright!).

First off is transport logistics… now I wrote a blog on this last year (which obviously you’ve read 😉 ) so I’m not going to go over it again. Though if you happened to be washing your hair the week it was published or should wish to refresh your memory, have a gander here.

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Signing the register… usually for all but a humanist ceremony a register of some sort needs to be signed at some point during the nuptials. This tends to only involve a few members of the wedding party and can take some time, so instead of leaving the congregation in an awkward silence, broken only by sporadic mutterings, give them some entertainment. If in a church maybe the choir can belt out a little rendition of ‘All you need is love’ (White Lilac did this at their wedding and it was awesome!) Maybe you have a particularly talented friend, who you can coerce into performing for the amusement of your guests… it really can be anything, but really something is needed as it removes any disjointedness from the whole proceedings.

Drinks/canapés Vs drinks reception time… if your guests are lucky enough to have friends (that’s you) put on a drinks reception for them, you want to do it well. Look at the logistics for the amount of drinks and alcohol needed to appropriately last the drinks reception time. This may require subtly scrutinising your friends and families drinking habits in advance, to get a feel for whether they are a particularly alcoholic bunch! However a good rough guideline for drinks is around one glass every 20 minutes, though this will slow down as the drinks reception progresses. For the canapés roughly 5/6 per person over an hour, though ideally these need to be spaced out over the hour. A great tip if you want to make sure there is plenty of dancing time (and the schedule of the day allows for it) is to have the canapés as the wedding breakfast starter! Genius!

Speeches!.. these can fill people with both dread and excitement, the ‘in jokes’ and adventurous puns aren’t for everyone, but I always make sure I’m around for the speeches. Recently I wrote a blog on timings of speeches (again I’m expecting you to have read this! :P) though if you haven’t I shall let you off and point you in the right direction… (read it here). Further to the timings logistics however is the physical logistics. Where are people going to be standing for their speech, can they be seen? Can they be heard? Will there be a mic? Do they know where it is and how it works? These are essential questions which need to be answered in advance to make sure there is no awkward silences of nervous laughter (I think you may have guessed I hate awkward moments at weddings!).

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Shoes… simple one really… look at the ground of both your ceremony and reception. Can any types of shoe walk across the ground, yes? Great news! Though if not, tell your guests… Stilettos and grass usually causes all the drama!

As I said before I am currently flying back from Italy as I write this and my was it hot! (even in September!) Amalfi is renowned for it’s wonderful weather and it’s many, many, many steps… I mean my legs have never worked so hard in their life! But as well as it’s many, many upsides it does have a down, with the hot weather and the many, many, many steps, someone in a full on tweed suit or thickly layered gown is not going to last long before collapsing in a sweaty heap. This can be said for any wedding in any part of the world, if it’s really cold, let you guests know, if it’s on windy hill, let you guests know or if it is an exceedingly warm climate, just let your guests know. All you need to do is advise a dress code on the invite and it should save any bedraggled grumpy guests on the day.

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Signage and lighting… take good look around your venue, both in the day and at night. You want to see your venue in all it’s shining and moonlit glory, as your day is likely to start during daylight and go onto when it is dark, which will show the venue in two completely different lights (or not as the case maybe!). Put yourselves in the (possibly drunken) mindset of your guests… can you find your way around easy enough without asking, are there dark areas where you can’t really see that step you just stubbed your toe on? If you get lost or injure yourselves then at least one of your guests are bound to! Help them out by putting out signs pointing them in the right direction and lighting areas which need it, this can be done simply with chalk boards and lanterns, but custom signs and festoon lighting are some great options too!

Finally, as I know I have a tendency to talk too much(!), I just want to ask you to lend a thought to how the logistics of the day will work if it is raining… (assuming elements of your wedding are outside). You need to look at the wet weather continuum and all the logistics specific too it. We all hope for perfect weather, but you need to be prepared if unfortunately that perfect weather fails to materialise (this is especially prudent for those of you getting married in the UK!).

I hope some of this has been useful to you, there are soo many more logistics that go into planning a wedding day and the days around it, but I get told off if I write too much and my flight is currently descending into London (hurrah!)! So the above is all you’re getting for now! Have a wonderful weekend with whatever you maybe doing and I hope to hear from you soon!

Love Bertie x

P.S. If you miss me in the mean time, you can always see what I’m up to on Instagram (matty_hew)


Sorry it’s been a while! I hope you are all well? We’ve had quite the busy summer wedding season, which has been amazing! You’ve probably seen from the numerous Insta photos, but it truly has been diverse, both in location (we’ve been flying all over the place!) and style (we never like to do the same thing twice!). You’ll see more pictures on what we’ve been up to in the coming months, once the the wonderful photographers and videographers do their magic!

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So as the sun dips below the horizon earlier each day and the great oak embraces it’s autumnal tinge, we start looking towards next year and the new challenges it might bring! A large element of this is the putting together of proposals and their is one aspect of this we particularly like, Inspiration boards! Now you’ve probably seen one or two that we’ve done and posted on social media, but I wanted to let you know a little bit about the thought process that goes into it. It’s not just scouring Pinterest for pretty pictures we like! Though don’t get me wrong, Pinterest certainly plays it’s part! Ultimately however it is driven off of what the couple want, we have a long chat with any prospective couples to get to know them, how they met, what they do, likes and dislikes, where they fall on the marmite discussion?! And of course their ideas, however specific, on what they want for their wedding. We (that is the marvellous Matthew Oliver team) then go away and have a quick chat (usually with wine!) about what we envision for them, what will and won’t work based on what was discussed, ideas (however ‘out there’) bounded around to propose something truly unique! In this proposal, amongst many other things, is the design board.

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So what elements do we bring into the design board to showcase an idea? Well first off we put in a little disclaimer saying that this is just an idea, the actual direction we go in maybe completely different, but the purpose is to show the couple how we work and what we can do, which is what it’s all about really! We don’t want to limit the endless possibilities from the word go, do we!?

Venue/setting idea – We will pop 1 or 2 images on a location, whether it be a classic french chateaux, beach in the Bahamas or an English garden setting with a stunning backdrop (to name a few!)

Theme – 2 or 3 images that reinforce the theme. These often aren’t wedding related at all, maybe an inanimate object that has a colour, style or connotation we want to accentuate. This could be a striped deck chair to inspire a English seaside feel. Or moroccan spices to display a colour pallette …the world is your oyster!

Flowers – Here at Matthew Oliver we love floral displays, so try to include this where possible. It could be a stunning bouquet, a delicate buttonhole, table designs… anything really, but of course in complementary colours and style!

Place setting – This is such an important design element that is often overlooked, but it brings in such a huge design aspect that we like to include it in the inspiration board, whether it is just a charger plate, cutlery, the glasses or a full on place setting.

Specifics – Usually in discussion with the couple they focus on an element they want to make a fuss of, whether it be the cake, stationery, transport or special activity (Zorbing!). We therefore tie this into the rest of the design inspiration board also.

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The key part to all of this is to ensure it displays a clear, pretty design, which reflects the couple. Now obviously we are putting this together for people who we have just met, which comes with it’s own challenges! If you are looking to get married, with you and your partner deciding on what you envision, I strongly suggest a simple design board, using the key areas listed above, to keep you on track. There are so soo many amazing wedding ideas out there, you can easily be led astray, a wedding planner would usually keep you on track, but in the absence of a planner a design inspiration board should stop you straying too far! Give it a try!

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I think I shall leave it there for today! I’ve got a couple of inspiration boards to be getting on with myself! Have a great weekend, Matthew and I certainly will be, we are guests for the wedding of half of the wonderful White Lilac! Can’t wait!

Speak soon!


Love Bertie x

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Hey All!

I hope all is well with everyone?!

During our crazy but wonderfully successful July of weddings, i’m sure you all saw but we did a particularly beautiful wedding at the fantastic Trinity Buoy Wharf in London. It was a long exciting day with many elements and cultural traditions,many of which were new to me, but were all befitting of the theme of the day and designed to bring two families together. This got me thinking about wedding traditions in general and more specifically the tradition of speeches. The best man at the London wedding came out with a corker of a speech, which certainly competes as a contender as one of my all time favourites! But what made it so good? What made me howl with laughter, shed a small tear and towards the end even join!? Well that is a question! Now I’m not going to go into the details of what you should write in a speech, but rather how to choose who should give a speech and broadly delve into how the tradition of speech giving can be interpreted to suit your wedding day!

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In English Tradition there are three core members of the wedding party who have to give a speech…

The Father of the Bride – A speech full of cute stories of his little girl, talking about her life, her achievements, imparting words of wisdom and finishing up with a tear jerking statement on how he couldn’t wish for a better husband for his daughter; it’s all very emotional.

The Groom himself – His speech is full of light jokes, talking of his love for his ‘new wife’ (queue small cheer) and of course doing the long list of thanks (including the wedding planner! ;-)).

The best man – There’s pressure on the best man, as the expectations are high to tactfully make jokes (at the Groom’s expense!) and hopefully to the great amusement of the entire (usually diverse) wedding party, a tall order!

Most bases are generally covered with the above three and don’t get me wrong, it’s not a bad format, but what about your mum? Or the bride? I think the people who really want to speak should and shouldn’t feel constrained by tradition. However that doesn’t mean you should let any Tom, Dick or Harry who wants to speak do so, the wedding day is only so long! Four should be the limit really, just don’t feel resigned to have to follow tradition, speak to those special people in your life you want to hear from on your wedding day and take it from there.

The above tradition only really covers a heterosexual arrangement, as most traditions tend to do, however with an increase in the number of men marrying other men and women marrying other women, new structures to the wedding speeches and the wedding day as a whole are being thought of. Gay grooms are asking their Mother’s to give them away, Lesbian couples are taking to the aisle together, new conventions are being sought and it’s wonderful! I would like to see Mother’s of the groom giving a speech or the Best Maid of Bridesman stepping up to the mic! This shouldn’t just be within the gay community where couples are inciting change, but with anyone getting married! Have who you want to have join in with the important parts of your wedding day, don’t feel shoehorned into a tradition if it isn’t what you truly want.

Now back from that small tangent and onto what makes for a good speech! Obviously the person you choose to make the speech is immediately going to set the tone, and as mentioned above make sure it is someone you want to make a speech. If you are looking forward to what someone is going to say from the off you are going to be in the frame of mind to enjoy it more! That doesn’t mean you should pick your most theatrical member of the family or that friend who has the perfect radio voice, sure they would give a good speech because they are good speakers, but it isn’t the person you want to hear from, so even if they have a stutter or lisp, speak a different language or even do it through charades! That’s fine, because it is the person you want to hear speak at your wedding! You can always get tools to help them… subtitles, translator, mime?

The other thing that makes for the setup of a good speech is timings, both length of each speech but also where they fall in the day. The length of speech is an easy one, roughly 5 minutes per speech is a great guide we work to! Timings of when to do the speeches are pretty flexible, we’ve done many different formats;

  • One speech between each course
  • A speech at the reception drinks
  • The Groom’s speech before the wedding breakfast, followed by the other’s after the main
  • All speeches just before desert
  • Or all speeches after the meal
  • One for the more extravagant is to not have any speeches on the wedding day at all, but instead to have them all at rehearsal dinner the night before, with your very nearest and dearest present

There’s no set rule here and as every wedding day is different, you will find what suits, but my suggestion… don’t have them all at once, spread them out, savour them. It will allow for a better flow of the day and if I can be so bold to say… it will stop people from getting bored!

Right, I think I have rambled on long enough! I will leave you with this though… it is your day, don’t be afraid to make the choices you want to make because of tradition, the choice is always yours!

Love Bertie x



Here at Matthew Oliver we are gearing up for an incredibly busy month of Weddings from London to Loire (Valley) and a few places in between! But before we jump into full on planner mode I wanted to tick this off my ‘to-do’ list and write a few (hundred) words to you lovely people!

We like to ask the hard questions here at Matthew Oliver and the question of who pays for what at a wedding is undoubtedly a hard one! Being the quintessentially English folk we are! That being said, ambiguity in this area doesn’t do anyone any favours, so it is (however difficult) something that you need to ensure everyone is on the same page with. So let’s see if I can help point you in the right direction for what’s expected!

Tradition dictates parents of the bride pay for the wedding, which while lovely for grooms parents, wholly unfair for the bride’s parents, making it a pretty ridiculous tradition! These days it tends to be much more sensible, with both sets of parents wanting to help out their children and there’s nothing wrong with that, but watch out for any potential pitfalls and caveats! All to often, and I imagine mostly unintentionally, that ‘contribution’ ends up with them believing they have bought the right to a say at your wedding. This needs to be avoided at all costs, as although we all love our parents, it is your day and should be what you and your other half have dreamt up, no one else. This includes all aspects of the day, but most specifically the guest list; have who you want at your wedding, the faces you want to have smiling at you whilst you stroll down the aisle and waltz your first dance. Now I know it’s all well and good me writing this (sat in bed whilst being harassed by an Irish Setter), because money is money and weddings are expensive, but sit down with your parents and have a serious chat about what the money means and whether it is unconditional. Should the conversation not go the way you want, then you and your partner need to have a serious chat about whether you want to accept the money with the potential stress it brings, or whether you can do without it. Either way make sure you have this conversation as you could regret it later on.

Hmmm getting a bit serious here aren’t we! Rest assured this certainly isn’t the norm! But it is something to think about.

The other day I got asked the question about Groomsmen attire and who pays for it, an excellent question as to be fair it often is a grey area, but let’s see if we can shed some light! First off, simply, if you have the money within the wedding budget to buy your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen’s outfits, then do so! Makes things easier and you’ll be a hero (high fives all round!). If (and this is more likely) the budget is a bit tighter and requires further thought on whether the budget can be made to stretch that little bit further, maybe these two points can help you make the decision:

  • If you want your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen to wear one specific outfit, which you have picked for each of them because it fits with your wedding theme, then I would expect you to buy this outfit for them.
  • If you have a rough idea of what you would like them to wear, but do not mind if it is something specific, such as all Bridesmaids in a pale blue dress and Grooms in a Navy suit, but you don’t mind shades or styles, then it would be acceptable for you to ask them to provide the outfit themselves. Though do be happy with whatever they turn up in!

Whatever your choice (click here for inspiration!), make sure to have the discussion with each member of the wedding party to ensure everyone is happy with the decision and is on the same page! It’s all about the communication!

Transport? Now that’s one I prepared earlier! Read here…

Honeymoon? Look I’ve got that one sorted also! Read here…

The last one I want to talk about can often see the Groomsmen turning into Divas! It is of course Wedding hair and makeup! Aha! In all seriousness it can sometimes cause a lot of wedding morning confusion in the Bridal camp and even delay the day, which cannot happen! If you are happy to pay for a number of the wedding party to get their hair and makeup done, that is great! Usually I would say the Bridesmaids and the Mothers would have their hair and makeup done, alongside the bride, with it all being paid for. The key part here is making sure everyone knows who is and who isn’t getting their hair and makeup done. Also making sure there is the right number of staff do those people in the time available. What you really have to avoid, is anyone not down to get theirs done, popping up on the day, causing a drama and a delay. Unacceptable.

Talking to your friends and family about money can be seen as a bit taboo, which is ridiculous as it is an important element to planning your wedding. Talking to them ensures there is no confusion, everyone knows where they stand and you hopefully achieve every wedding planners goal; A flawless wedding.

Right, I think that will do as my words of wisdom for the week! I’m off to harass the dog, have a wonderful day!

Love Bertie x


Bonjour lovely people, how are you all doing?  Any lovely weddings happening this weekend?  Do tell us what your plans are?

I’m sure most of you can relate to my #fridayfeeling today – ‘Your Speed Doesn’t Matter, Forward is Forward!’

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For me I have daily tasks and when I don’t complete them I get very anxious and annoyed at myself for not pushing myself further, but I’ve realised recently that whatever you complete in a day/week/year you should be happy with, as you’ve done something, even if you feel it’s a small thing.  Just think of it like this, the task you did instead of your days to-do list is now out of the way, which is one tick of your list, even if it wasn’t the tick you were expecting.  It is still something!

Distractions are my worst nightmare, but I’m going to embrace them!

What I’m trying to say is just give yourself credit for what you’ve achieved and don’t be let down/stressed if you didn’t do what you wanted!  I’m a complete sucker for letting myself down on this and today I’m actually feeling like this, hence why I’ve used this as my #fridayfeeling!

Forward is forward and we can do it, even if it’s going to be a long journey!

Thanks for popping by and loads of love,

Matthew Oliver

International Wedding Planner xx


Hello All!

I hope the week is going well for most? Me? I’m Great! This week I have one question… How do you entertain those guests with a limited attention span?! Well there are a few options out there, some of which we’ve planned as part of a Matthew Oliver Wedding and others I’ve just happened across and thought… ‘LOVE IT!’.

Welly Tossing – I came across this one last year, whilst as a guest at a friends wedding. It was a stunning day at the Bride’s family farm and plonked on wooden stakes, alongside the wonderfully befitting marquee, were a collection of wellies… Now I don’t pretend to be an overly high achiever in the sporting realm, but I won’t deny that I have a competitive streak (who doesn’t!?!), either way the game was on. Stepping up to my welly of choice, I lobbed it with all the might I could muster… and you’ll never guess what! I only bloody well threw it the furthest! Yes, there may have been a particularly strong gust at that very moment (if I’m being honest!), but it doesn’t negate the fact that this quintessentially British activity (however bizarre) served as a highlight for me, on what was a beautifully thought out day.

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Zorbing – Last weekend Matthew Oliver Weddings took on the delightful task of a Chinese meets English Garden themed wedding, at the fantastic Ston Easton Park (photos coming your way soon!). As part of the day the couple wanted zorbing, and zorbing is what they got! Regrettably I was unable to attend the actual day and so missed out on the zorbing craziness (sad times), however I am told it went down a storm! If you want to know more on this one, you’re going to have to give Matthew a shout.

Table Icebreakers – If you’re looking for something a little more personal and low-key, table icebreakers could be the way to go. It’s also a great excuse to get some more wedding stationery into the day! The idea is simple, questions on the table for your guests to ask each other about the wedding couple, it hopefully prompts some delightful stories, allowing your guests to get to know each other and learn each other’s connection to the special couple.

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Hot Air Balloon – This is a marvellous idea and brilliant if the weather is just right and your venue has the space for it. It truly is a site to see, having a hot air balloon moored at your reception drinks, with guests having the ability to go up in the balloon, whilst tethered, seeing the wedding from above and the surrounding area. I will add a warning to this one however, we planned for this to be part of a Matthew Oliver Wedding last year, however due to high winds it wasn’t possible to have on the day (sad times all round). So if you were planning on this option (and you should definitely should!) maybe keep it as a surprise for your guests, just in case!

Bandeoke – I must confess I love this idea… and I say ‘idea’ because I have never done on been to a wedding which has had bandeoke (if you’re not sure what it is, Google it!). That is until this year, next month one of my close friends is having bandeoke at her wedding and I can-not-wait! As Matthew (and probably our neighbours) will attest… I love singing and I do it constantly (that’s me in the pic below)! So to sing in front of a live band, under the premise of karaoke (so low expectations) is ideal. Additional bonus is it’s a two for one; wedding band and guest activity/participation. I’ll let you know how I get on next month!

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Balloon Paint wall – Stumbling across this, whilst doing a tiny amount of research for this article, it immediately jumped out as a truly unique idea. The idea being you fill different balloons with different coloured paint, affix the balloons to a large canvas/board, get your guests to lob darts at the balloons, creating wonderful art! If you don’t get what I mean, see picture for a little more context! Obviously this can only really be set up in a controlled environment, where it doesn’t matter if things get a bit messy, but the statement of it will truly wow your guests and get them thinking ‘that’s a great idea!’. The bonus bit is you get a truly unique momentum of your wedding, created by the best people in your lives.

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Bouncy Castle – We all grew up wishing for a bouncy castle birthday or at the very least an invite to your friends birthday who had promised a bouncy castle; and for good reason… they’re awesome! Though as you grow older people start to imply that the notion of an adult wanting a bouncy castle is somehow immature… those people are wrong. It is completely acceptable to want a bouncy castle and what better excuse than on your wedding day! All you need is a relatively flat area and friends/family with a willingness to let out their inner child, simple! We’ve got a French wedding next month where they are doing just that, I can’t wait to see the pictures!

So there you go, some ideas I particularly love on what activities you can add to your wedding day, to make it that extra bit more enjoyable for you and all attending. Sorry for rambling on some points there, but hey-ho! I would love to know of any unusual activities you’ve had or are having for your wedding, so feel free to send them over (! In the meantime I will wish you all a happy end of week!

Love Bertie x


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So you’ve gone through the pains of dwindling your mammoth guest list down to those special people you wish to share your wonderful day with, what comes next? The waiting… the tense few months when you get to find out who can make it, to witness the coming together of you and your loved one, followed by copious amounts of food, bubbles and dancing of course! Though what can be done to make this bit of the planning a little smoother? There are always going to be those guests that just don’t RSVP, most likely due to the fact that they have seen you and said ‘yeah I’m coming’, thinking that is the same as RSVPing …it’s not. Though in all honesty I have been guilty of that thinking once or twice! Oops!

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So what can be done?

More and more recently we have seen people moving away from the tradition of sending the RSVP via post and instead looking towards technology. Mostly this comes in the form of a website, just for your special day (with a form on it for RSVPs).

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Though is this better?

To be honest with you I don’t know… yes it is cheaper, with there being no cost for postage (if you go down the postage route always include a return stamp, it’s just good manners!), it is also easier as the information will already be online (no paperwork!). But there’s something about wedding stationery, in all its forms, which makes me want to use it in as many elements of the wedding as possible, including RSVP’s. Logic does dictate technology is the way forward, but I can’t help sticking with the nostalgia of pen and paper. Plus we can’t be logical all the time, can we!

What are your thoughts?
Love Bertie x

Yes, it has finally happened… Matthew and I are officially working together and so far it is going great! And no it isn’t just because Matthew is in London today and so it is just myself and Winston in the studio! To be honest with you, my first day was actually yesterday (shh!), but I was so busy with the first day craziness I forgot to tell you all! Sorry about that! So here I am writing to you now about how it’s all going…

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We have a number of weddings coming up over the next few summer months, which means Matthew is in full planning mode! (hence the trip to London). I’m here, two days a week, to learn and support Matthew in any way he needs, from contacting venues (today’s job), working on our new website (coming soon!) and the all important (but less fun) financial side of the business. Basically the Matthew Oliver Weddings handyman! But I think I’ll probably stick with my title of Business Planner, what do you think?

Anyway I shall not bore you with my complete ‘to-do’ list! And just say that if you want to get in contact or see what I’m up to email me ( or have a nose at my Instagram account (matty_hew).

Right, whilst I continue to try and decipher Matthew’s handwriting, I shall bid you good day and wish you a great weekend!
Love Bertie x

Bonjour again!

I know two posts in one day, what has gotten over me!

I’ve brought back the #fridayfeeling as I saw this quote today and knew I had to post it because it’s actually how I feel right now!Marc Johns

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As you can imagine we’re entering into wedding season, for some they’re already inside and they won’t be coming up for air till later this year.

In this time it’s so important that we make sure we have time to play, even it’s it’s for a couple of hours, or if you’re lucky a weekend!

Been in this industry, is challenging and can be very emotional at times and been a planner you could be working on your own during the week, so I advise giving yourself some play time – play time could be anything like, shopping, catching up with friends, exercise, date nights, hanging out with family, or even playing with your favourite Star Wars figures (I did say play time)- or in my case my gold dinosaurs!

Having a weekly task list and adding this play time to it is vital because then you’ll know you have to make time for it, especially if you’ve made plans!  I’m a sucker for making plans and then when it comes to the day of ‘play time’ I’m always worrying I’ve not got time for this!  We should not be worried, we should be excited; but unfortunately this is the case for a lot of us, as regardless of what we do we feel we’re letting someone down, if it’s a client a boss, your partner it’s what we think!

This play time does not just go for wedding folk, it’s important you couples out there have time to play too!  If you’re planning your wedding on your own or even if you have a planner, it’s so important you find time to play/relax and do something that does not involve wedding planning – though make sure not to even bring up wedding planning because it won’t be play time!

So what are you all doing this weekend or next week that let’s you put your pads down and turn your computers off?  I’m going for drinks this evening followed by a Thai with the boy – this is my play time, what is yours?

I’m sure you all can relate to this, but I feel we all need to do this for ourselves because quite rightly we deserve it!  In this day and age we work to hard and forget the play!  Remember the saying work hard, play hard?!

Love you loads,

Matthew Oliver

International Wedding Planner xx

Bonjour lovely, lovely people!

How are you?  Anyone getting married this weekend or going to a wedding?  Do share the details?

I just wanted to share some little advice with you for your menu and name cards!  Why not incorporate both the menu and name card together, so the name of your guest is on the menu?  Each guest will have a personalised menu that can fit nicely on the place setting?  This of course looks very stylish and will save money if you’re purchasing both anyway.

I know not everyone offers a menu per person, but if you’re looking for something visual then this is definitely a grand idea.

Also guests love to take home a memory of the wedding and this is perfect for guests to remember yours by.

Here is an example –

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I created this quickly in the studio with everything that I already had!  Just look at Viola the Velociraptor all happy amongst the setting!

Stationery design by the incredible – The Finer Details

Loads of love and have fun,

Matthew Oliver

International Wedding Planner xx

Bonjour beauty’s and handsome’s!

How have you all been?

Finally the sun has come back out in the UK!  It definitely causes for celebration, especially as in the last month we’ve witnessed every season!

I’ve been meaning to write to you all and say how delighted I am to be featured on my newest and most favourite blog/directory at the moment ‘A Well Travelled Bride’.

Matthew Oliver International Wedding PlannerThere style, personality and detail is exactly what I’m after in a brand who represents me!  From the moment they first contacted me I knew I wanted to be part of their journey in taking over the world – which I have no doubt they will!  I love fresh blogs/directories that give each of there associates time, attention and the chance to get to know one another even if they’re across the world in New Zealand.  I just feel exceptionally comfortable and love their approach!

Hay they have even said that they’ll try and help me reach my dream this year in getting an Austria wedding!  You know me – you always have to have a dream!

They have created a great directory called the A – B List showcasing some of the worlds freshest talents in an easy way to view and get to know!

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If you’re planning an international wedding then their blog is going to be so useful for you – especially once they’ve had a few months to get settled; already they have some wondrous articles from around the world – talk a look below.

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I also love that both owners have had their own experiences within the wedding industry either designing beautiful wedding gowns or flying all over the world arranging scrumptious floral arrangements – from this you know how that they’re here to help you instead take your money and never contact you again!

Even though I loved them from their first email, the moment I actually fell in love with them was from their interview on me where they really made me feel special and honoured to be part of there community!

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Above is the introduction, but how nice is that?  Read the rest here!

So if you’re a bride or even a wedding professional A Well Travelled Bride is going to be special to everyone soon!

Thank you so much for popping by and love you all!

Matthew Oliver

International Wedding Planner xx

Bonjour!  It’s been a while and there is so much to talk about, more than a simple blog post can capture!

In short, and what has been happening in MO for the last few months is…

  • We designed and planned a wedding for Oman royalty at the Mandarin Oriental in January
  • We opened up premises in Bradford-on-Avon – we call it the Studio
  • We created a brand new logo inspired by Winston (our lovely Red Setter)
  • Millie has joined the team as our intern
  • Bertie is joining the team as the business planner

Also a lot is happening in the next few months…

  • Brand new re-branded website is going to be released within the next couple of months
  • Weddings all over – UK, Scotland and France!
  • I know I keep saying it, but the 5 Reasons will be coming back!
  • I’m turning 30!!!!!

So as you can see it’s all happening which is very exciting, so please stay tuned for everything to unravel and please stay patient as once the new site is up and live we’ll bring back more tips, advice, design boards etc for the blog to give you the inspiration you need to plan your wedding.

Here is the studio in Bradford-on-Avon.

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photo credits – Hayley Savage Photography

We’re really happy with the rate everything is moving with MO and like always I really appreciate all the support you give.

Thank you so much for popping by and stay tuned!


Matthew Oliver

International Wedding Planner xx